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Books by Bob Hostetler

February 21, 2011

Bob Hostetler guest posts at Tony Morgan’s blog about how he “got his groove back” after a bout with depression.  Hostetler is the author of Don’t Check Your Brains at the Door: A Book of Christian Evidences (Know What You Believe and Why) and the novel, The Bone Box.  Here is how he combated the depression:

  • Prayer – Sure, sure, sure. You would expect a pastor to say that, I know. But seriously. God is my salvation from depression, and prayer was a daily means of grace to me. Some days my praying was fairly unintelligible, I’m sure, and often repetitive (along the lines of, “Lord, have mercy, Lord, have mercy, Lord have mercy have mercy have mercy”). But as I look back in my prayer journal over the last couple years, I can SEE how prayer sustained me (a really great reason, by the way, to keep a prayer journal).
  • Exercise – Late last year, I began to run. I didn’t want to. I started slow, and built up, and lo and behold one day very early on, I experienced the runner’s high people talk about. It truly made a huge difference in my mental and physical ability to “spring back” from discouragements, old and new.
  • Counsel – When I went to my first appointment with my first “shrink” (I’ve had two), he asked me the standard question: “Why are you here?” I explained that I wasn’t in crisis (this was before my bout with depression), I had no pressing issues to discuss, but I knew that someday I would, and I thought it would be wise to have a counselor I knew and trusted (and who knew me) when that day came. Boy, was that ever prophetic! My “shrink” was absolutely crucial in helping me through and out of my struggle with depression.
  • Nutrition – I’m no expert, and am still learning to eat and live healthier than in the past, but more than a year ago my counselor referred me to an internist. Long story short, he’s worked with me to (1) quit drinking pop–even diet pop–entirely, (2) severely limit caffeine, sugar, and processed flour from my diet, and (3) address an adrenal imbalance common in men over fifty. I still have a long way to go, but it has made a discernible difference.
  • Accountability – Part of my depression involved some disappointment in and transition from an accountability relationship. I have since found great reward, stability, and mutual encouragement from meeting with two accountability partners weekly (one via Skype, the other in person). I need this in my life, and when it’s missing, I’m more susceptible to discouragement and depression. These men don’t convince me I’m not crazy, but they do remind me I’m not the only one.
  • Grandchildren – Seriously, the arrival of three grandchildren over the course of my most stressful and disappointing season of ministry may have added eustress to distress. However, those three bambinos have been a means of God’s grace to me. And perhaps most importantly, they have been instrumental in refocusing me and my priorities. Family is so important.
  • Rest – At some point in my struggle, I realized I had stopped observing my weekly Sabbath when I began to get depressed. Or I began to get depressed when I stopped observing my weekly Sabbath. Doesn’t matter which. I need a weekly day of rest, reading, prayer, and walking to restore my soul. I knew that, I just let it slip. Never again. And likewise with my annual habit of a 4- or 5-day prayer retreat. Sabbath restores me. Retreat restores me. They’re too valuable to neglect.
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